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As a certified pediatric sleep coach, I frequently hear from parents who are exhausted by a simple but tricky problem: getting their baby to stay asleep after being transferred to the bassinet. That transition, from the comfort of your arms to the still surface of the bed, can be one of the biggest hurdles.
Sound familiar? You are absolutely not alone. The "bassinet transfer" is a true art form, and it takes practice, patience, and sometimes trying a few clever techniques. Today, I want to share a specific tip that many parents find incredibly helpful, alongside other strategies to make those transitions smoother, all while prioritizing safe sleep.
Before we dive into solutions, let's understand why this happens. Babies are highly sensitive to changes in their environment. When you're holding them, they're warm, snuggled against you, smelling your scent, and feeling your movement. The bassinet, by contrast, is a still, often cooler, and much less "cuddly" surface. The sudden change in temperature, pressure, and the absence of your touch can be jarring, triggering their startle reflex (Moro reflex) and waking them up. Their tiny nervous systems are still learning to regulate, and these changes can feel like a big deal.
Here’s a technique that has worked wonders for countless families I've coached, specifically designed to minimize the sensation of being "put down" flat on their back:
When transferring your baby to the bassinet, you can try laying him or her down sideways first to help with the transition, then gently roll them onto their back for safe sleep.
Let me elaborate. Instead of lowering your baby directly onto their back (which can feel very abrupt), try lowering them into the bassinet so their side touches the mattress first. Keep your arms supporting their head and bottom. Once their side is settled on the mattress, and you feel their weight supported, then you can gently and slowly roll them onto their back. Your hands should stay on them, providing comfort and pressure, as you make this final adjustment.
Why does this work? By easing them in sideways, you're not immediately engaging that strong startle reflex that often happens when they feel their back hit a flat surface suddenly. It's a softer, more gradual introduction to the mattress.
Warm the Bassinet: A cold mattress can be a rude awakening. Try placing a warm (not hot!) hot water bottle or a heating pad in the bassinet for a few minutes before the transfer, removing it before you put your baby down.
The "Hold & Wait" Method: Once your baby is asleep in your arms, hold them for an extra 10-15 minutes to ensure they are in a deeper sleep cycle before attempting the transfer.
Slow and Steady Wins the Race: This is crucial. When lowering your baby, do it incredibly slowly. Think about moving in slow motion. Maintain skin-to-skin contact for as long as possible.
Keep a Hand on Them: Once they are on their back in the bassinet, don't pull your hands away immediately. Keep one hand gently on their chest or tummy, applying light pressure, and the other supporting their head if needed. Slowly, gradually remove your hands, one at a time.
Shush and Pat: If your baby stirs, immediately begin gentle shushing sounds ("shhhhhh") and soft pats on their bottom or chest. These familiar sounds and sensations can help them drift back to sleep.
Exit Strategy: Once your baby is settled, move away from the bassinet slowly. Don't make sudden movements or noises.
Practice Makes Progress: Every baby is different, and every transfer is different. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't work perfectly every time. Consistency and practice are your allies.
Remember, the ultimate goal is safe sleep. Always place your baby on their back for sleep, on a firm, flat surface, free of blankets, bumpers, or toys. The sideways method is purely for the transfer process to help them settle, with the final position always being on their back.
Navigating infant sleep can be incredibly challenging, but with a few tricks up your sleeve, you can make those transitions a little smoother for both you and your little one. You've got this!
Yours in sleep,
Tracie / Rest Well Baby
www.restwellbaby.com
Tracie Kesatie is a Certified Gentle Sleep Coach dedicated to helping families with little ones 0-10 years of age achieve a restful night's sleep.
Disclaimer: This article provides general information and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with your pediatrician for any concerns about your child's health.
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